A Bad Week in Review
Last week was a challenge for me. It was one of those periods where I found myself grappling with loss, frustration, and doubts, elements that are all too familiar in the trading world. I failed to heed my own advice for caution, and my performance reflected not only the market conditions but also my internal state. This reminded me how our minds can shape our brains and ultimately influence our trading outcomes.
Understanding Neuroplasticity
The brain's ability to change and adapt, known as neuroplasticity, is at the heart of personal development, especially for traders. The phrase "neurons that fire together, wire together" is not just a scientific curiosity; it's a roadmap for change. Every thought and every action, incrementally builds the neural pathways that dictate our behavior and, by extension, our trading decisions. For instance, when you imagine yourself executing a trade successfully, you're laying down the same neural groundwork as if you were physically doing it. This principle has been demonstrated in studies where pianists who imagined practicing a piece developed similar neural structures as those who physically practiced it.
Motivation and Evolution
Humans are motivated by both positive and negative stimuli. Evolution has favored those who bond and form attachments, leading to larger, more complex brains capable of nuanced social interactions. This "love" or attachment system has profound implications for traders, where the emotional connection to the market, to success, or even to failure, can dictate our neural responses and future behaviors.
The Brain's Negative Bias
Our brain is like Velcro for negative experiences but Teflon for positive ones. This negativity bias is wired into us, with the amygdala acting as the brain's alarm center, primarily alert to negative stimuli. This can lead traders to hold onto losing trades out of fear of loss or to cut profitable trades too soon to avoid losing what they've gained. Understanding this bias means we must actively work to extend our focus on positive experiences and quickly let go of negative ones to rewire our brain for resilience and optimism.
Self-Compassion and Emotional Regulation
Here's an exercise to combat negativity: take less than 10 seconds to acknowledge a tough moment with, "This sucks. I wish it were different," then move on. But the real power comes from self-compassion. Think of someone you care about, feel your compassion for them, then extend that same compassion inward. Phrases like, "It will go better for me" can be incredibly grounding. This practice can help mitigate the chronic stress that trading can induce, which is crucial because stress can hijack the approach and attachment systems, leading to poor decision-making.
Applying Self-Compassion
I want to show you how I handle weeks like last week by using this method. The “Motivation and Evolution” reminds me to “love the pain” which has been my theme for 2024. The “Negativity Bias” makes me want to continually punish myself for a bad week. I say to myself, “You don’t have red weeks! What’s wrong with you?”. Through “Self-Compassion and Emotional Regulation” I quickly acknowledge last week sucked! I quickly say afterwards “last week was not a stumbling block but a steppingstone. I am glad this happened so that I can start 2025 with the right mindset. I LOVE THE PAIN!”
Building the Optimal Brain
The ideal state for a trader is one of calm, contentment, creativity, and care—reflecting balanced activity in the avoid, approach, and attach systems of our brain. When we're in this home base, we're not just reactive; we become generative, making decisions from a place of strength rather than fear. To stay in this mode, we must:
Take in the Good: Regularly focus on positive aspects of your life or trading. Make this a habit, like listing three things you're grateful for each day to engage your approach system positively.
Live by Integrity: In your personal and trading life, adhere to your ethical code regardless of external pressures. This nurtures the affiliate system.
Manage Stress: When stress activates, calming techniques can help maintain or regain your baseline state, counteracting the avoid system's tendency to dominate.
Practical Application for Traders
Mindful Attention: Each morning, I take five minutes to center myself. I bring to mind someone who cares about me, reflect on my goals, and practice self-compassion. This simple act of grounding helps me approach the day’s trades with calmness and clarity.
Emotional Journaling: Assign emotions to your trades. Note how you feel at the entry and exit of each trade. This helps in recognizing emotional patterns that could be influencing your decisions.
Creative Reflection: Use a non-dominant hand to draw symbols or scenes representing your journey with money from childhood to now. Then, use your dominant hand to add words or insights beside these drawings. This exercise can do things: using both the non-dominant and dominant hands begins balancing both sides of your brain. It can also reveal subconscious beliefs about money that might affect your trading.
In essence, becoming a better trader involves more than just mastering charts or strategies; it's about mastering oneself. By understanding and leveraging neuroplasticity, we can transform our trading psychology, turning each trade into an opportunity for personal growth as well as financial gain. Remember, the journey to an optimal trading brain is one of gradual cultivation and sudden awakenings, where every moment of mindfulness contributes to a larger, more resilient self.
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